The Dungeon List

Leather · StrictA leather harness, his on you or yours on him.Tomasz: Tick it and I fit it first, buckle by buckle, and ask at every hole. Maybe means I show it to you on the bench and nothing more.Tomasz Wrona Mark it Rope · PlayfulA single rope cuff on one wrist, tied while you talk.Everett: One wrist, one knot, one record playing. If your hand tingles you tell me before the chorus, and the knot comes off.Everett Sayles Mark it Rubber · TenderRubber gloves, slowly, on his hands or yours.Dario: Yes means I put them on while you watch. Maybe means you hold them first. ha. Sorry. It's a good maybe.Dario Quintal Mark it Boots · StrictPolished boots, laced by him.Lamar: I lace them, you tell me how tight. Every eyelet is a check-in. Copy that before we start.Lamar Oyelaran Mark it Sportswear · PlayfulLycra team kit, still warm from a ride.Ilya: yes? good. maybe? then i stay in it and you decide when i'm allowed out of itIlya Rosen Mark it Sportswear · PlayfulWrestling for the upper hand.Callan: We grapple, I check in twice, and I lose on purpose when your list says so. Tap out whenever. A tap means stop, always.Callan Whitaker Mark it Sensory · SlowA blindfold.Noor: With your eyes covered, every small sound gets louder. It comes off the moment you ask. No reason needed.Noor Tjader Mark it Leather · SlowWorn leather work gloves.Piotr: Gloves on. Slow. You say how close. That's all.Piotr Lindahl Mark it Rope · StrictA full chest harness in natural rope.Hendrik: If you have marked this yes, I shall read your other answers twice before I choose the fibre. Hemp is honest; jute is kinder. You will choose.Hendrik Visser Mark it Service · PlayfulFollowing orders, said out loud.Jamal: I call it, you say heard. You call one back, I say heard. Nobody gets the wrong plate, chef.Jamal Whitcomb Mark it Service · StrictCuffs, with the key in plain sight.Rufus: The key hangs on the hook where we can both reach it. I keep doors, not traps.Rufus Adeyemi Mark it Sensory · TenderSilk drawn slowly over the wrist.Sven: I ask once, I ask twice, then the silk. Cool first, then warm. If you say no the second time, the no wins.Sven Karlsen Mark it Rubber · PlayfulA slick rubber jacket, his or yours.Marcos: Okay but listen. Yes means I unzip the garment bag. Maybe means I unzip it halfway and we talk about it.Marcos Ibarra Mark it Rubber · StrictBeing measured for a latex piece.Desmond: Chest, waist, wrist, and a running commentary. The tape stops at whatever your list says, and not one millimetre past it.Desmond Achebe Mark it Workwear · PlayfulA climbing harness, checked twice.Gabe: I load test the gear and then I load test your yes. Then I trust both completely. Off at any height if you say so.Gabe Furlan Mark it Sensory · SlowScent described on the skin, eyes closed.Louis: One strip, on your wrist, in words. Bergamot, iris, something warm. Each one gets your yes, your no or your maybe.Louis Perrault Mark it Leather · SlowWatching him work leather before anything else.Tomasz: Some men want only this. You sit, I cut and stitch, we talk about your list. That is a whole evening, and a good one.Tomasz Wrona Mark it Rope · TenderRope talk, with no rope.Everett: We just talk knots. Bowline, clove hitch, why Monk would have hated the square knot. Plenty of men start here, and it's a fine place to start.Everett Sayles Mark it Boots · TenderPolishing boots together.Lamar: Sunday ritual. Two brushes, one tin, the radio on. Some men find that is the scene. I don't argue with them.Lamar Oyelaran Mark it Boots · StrictHeavy work boots, laced to the top.Piotr: Boots stay on. Yours or mine. Your list says which.Piotr Lindahl Mark it Service · StrictBeing addressed formally.Hendrik: Sir, if you wish it, or your name said precisely, every time. Words are the first rope I tie, and the gentlest.Hendrik Visser Mark it Sensory · PlayfulHeadphones and a sound you cannot see.Noor: I play you a room, a harbour, a whisper. You tell me which one you want louder, and which one is a no.Noor Tjader Mark it Workwear · TenderMassage oil and a slow check-in.Callan: Scale of one to ten, show me where. Pressure is your call the whole way, and I'll ask again halfway through.Callan Whitaker Mark it Service · TenderAftercare: a blanket, water, the long talk.Desmond: Act three, darling. Never skipped. If your list has only this ticked, I'll still give it the full production.Desmond Achebe Mark it Workwear · PlayfulChef whites and aprons.Jamal: Whites on, apron tied low, towel over the shoulder. Tick it and I narrate the knot like it's Saturday service.Jamal Whitcomb Mark it Rubber · SlowA full neoprene suit, zipped by someone else.Dario: Somebody else does the zip. That's the whole thing. I go quiet when I like it, so ask me, ok?Dario Quintal Mark it Sportswear · SlowCompression gear, peeled off slowly.Ilya: slowly is not my speed. that's why it's in my maybe column. want to find out together?Ilya Rosen Mark it Rope · PlayfulTied to an anchor point, outdoors, in words.Gabe: Tree, strap, sky. It all happens in the chat, so we go as high as your list says and come down the second you say.Gabe Furlan Mark it Service · TenderHanding over the key.Rufus: I give you the key. You give it back. That's the whole scene for some of us, and it's not a small one.Rufus Adeyemi Mark it Sensory · SlowTextures in the dark: paper, brass, silk.Sven: You name each one blindfolded. If you guess wrong I tell you, gently. If you say stop, the blindfold is off at once.Sven Karlsen Mark it Service · PlayfulBeing told to rest after a long day.Marcos: Calm on-shift voice, off-shift intentions. Sit. Water. Feet up. Then we read your list.Marcos Ibarra Mark it Sensory · TenderIce, described drop by drop.Louis: Cold on the inside of the wrist, then warm breath after. Slowly. If it's a no, it melts away and we never mention it.Louis Perrault Mark it Leather · StrictReading the whole list aloud before anything.Tomasz: Every line, in your words, with my pen on the paper. Some men tick only this one. It is my favourite.Tomasz Wrona Mark it Boots · PlayfulCowboy boots and a slow dance.Everett: Boots, a record, the radiator ticking. A slow dance can be as much of a scene as a knot, if your list says so.Everett Sayles Mark it Leather · PlayfulDressing him up, or being dressed.Desmond: You pick the costume or I do. Either way I narrate the fitting, and either way your no is the final cut.Desmond Achebe Mark it Service · StrictGiving the orders yourself.Jamal: Flip it. You call the tickets, I say heard. I'm a switch, chef. Tell me which way tonight.Jamal Whitcomb Mark it Sportswear · StrictPinned and holding still.Callan: Your call how long, your call how firm. One tap, I let go. Two taps, I ask how you are.Callan Whitaker Mark it Leather · StrictA leather flight jacket and a firm voice.Lamar: Clear instructions, clearly given, only the ones in your yes column. Anything else is a no-go.Lamar Oyelaran Mark it Sensory · TenderWhispering, close to the ear.Noor: Very quiet, very close, in words. If it is too much I turn it down. If it is not enough, tell me.Noor Tjader Mark it Workwear · SlowSawdust, sweat and a slow unbuckling.Gabe: I take the gear off piece by piece, and you tell me where to stop. Stopping's allowed anywhere.Gabe Furlan Mark it